You got it Manny... all of those ferts are spilled into the lake now...
On a personal note, I'm fairly easy to please but love challenges...
However, a major reason for wanting to move is because of divorce years ago... been going on for 10 years... My ex punched below the belt, lied, stole... oh, and threw me in jail. It took me a year to prove my innocence, and I've not been convicted of anything. My case has been dismissed.
In the small town I live in, I confided in a policeman here. I used to go straight to the station from work before going home and tell him what's going on... He knew that my ex is nuts and kept calling with false allegations. He just reminded me to play it cool and everything's good. We became friends and he knew I was looking to find a place during the divorce proceedings. After about the 5th call from my ex, the cop turned on me and took me in on false allegations.. I have a few choice words for him. I confronted him about his bad decision and his reply was, "I was doing my job". My reply, "So were the fellows at the Nuremburg trials. that doesn't make it right." During this time, a restraining order was place on me (again, all from false allegations) which enabled my ex to aquire full custody and abduct my children hours away. My house now sits empty at this time. this was all in 2005-2006. After a year, I regained possession of the now empty house but couldn't afford to live there, so I rented it out for many years. Quite recently, ex has now been found in contempt for her actions, which really amounts to nothing for women. But, this is the same house that I had from marriage. I was out of the house from 2006-2011. Oh, did I mention that the a$$^%*# cop bought a house across the street that was for sale during the time when I was out of the house? Yep, if I were to place my roadmaster in neutral and rolll out of my driveway, I'll roll right into his. So... that's been bothering me... to know I live across from a crooked cop, and my ex had ruined my reputation in the neighborhood.
I just couldn't understand how this happened. I'm a good law abiding citizen whose never even been in a fist fight in my life, and here I am being called a child abuser and wife beater...
...until I did reaserach... it turns out that the state actually gets rewarded for keeping the breadwinner away from the children. This is why you hear of men, most of the time, getting screwed in divorce in a time when we have more women leader than ever before in history. No doubt Hitlary will become the next president. Anyhow... Title IV-D of the social security walfare reform act of 1996 put in place by good old Billy states that FICA funding will be rewarded to the states for holding a father accountable for child support. essentially, the state has no interest in keeping the father involved with the children, it's the exact opposite. Title IV-E is even scarier because it will benefit by creating 2 non-custodial parents. How does this happen? CPS is involved, makes up lies and rips children out of their home. (I challenge you to google CPS corruption). I've been a child advocate since this time, leading a march in washington DC for father's and children's rights. I was working with Senator Nancy Schaefer who was exposing this horrible scheme in Washinton, but of course she was murdered. I was then working with pastor Ron Smith in grand Rapids Michigan where we were getting national attention. Guess what? He suddenly died. I was on two local news channels, but then decided it was time to call it quits before I was killed.
Moving isn't so much about lust for me as it is healing.